You Me Her

Available on Netflix New Zealand

Yes, You Me Her is now available on New Zealand Netflix. It arrived for online streaming on January 20, 2022

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Synopsis

An unusual, real-world romance involving relatable people, with one catch - there are three of them! You Me Her infuses the sensibilities of a smart, grounded indie rom-com with a distinctive twist: one of the two parties just happens to be a suburban married couple.

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Cast

Jarod Joseph
Jarod Joseph
Greg Poehler
Greg Poehler
Rachel Blanchard
Rachel Blanchard
Priscilla Faia
Priscilla Faia
Melanie Papalia
Melanie Papalia
Jennifer Spence
Jennifer Spence
Patrick Gilmore
Patrick Gilmore
Ennis Esmer
Ennis Esmer
Robert Moloney
Robert Moloney

Episodes

You Me Her: Season 1

Cigarettes and Funions and Crap
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Cigarettes and Funions and Crap

2016-03-22

Suburban Portland couple Emma and Jack Trakarsky are totally in love but seriously lacking spice. They end up tangled up with an escort (grad student Izzy) to get the mojo back, setting into motion a life-changing series of events for the trio.

Can You be Cool?
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Can You be Cool?

2016-03-29

As Jack, Emma, and Izzy try to put the mother of all weird days behind them, Emma reveals a secret, Izzy finds committing to safe-bet Andy tougher than she thought, and Jack can't shake the feeling that he's gotten them all in over their heads.

No Penetration
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No Penetration

2016-04-05

Jack, Izzy, and Emma, all together for the first time, agree to keep their relationship a business arrangement. Emma has her first date with Izzy while Jack grows ever more jealous and concerned about how this might effect his possible promotion.

Check a Box
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Check a Box

2016-04-12

Jack and Emma start to wonder if they're on the same page. Izzy tries to find stability in Andy.After a startling development, Jack and Emma separately try to end things with Izzy, leading to a surprising epiphany.

Niece Jackie
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Niece Jackie

2016-04-19

Izzy, Emma and Jack cope with the real world consequences of their burgeoning alt relationship.As the trio reunite to bolster their collective nerve and take a huge leap, Andy begins to put the pieces together about what Izzy's really been up to.

The T Word
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The T Word

2016-04-26

Izzy, Emma, and Jack finally take the polyamorous plunge together but things go wildly awry:Everything that could go wrong meets up to conspire against them... in their front yard. However,the real peril may be right there in the room with them.

The Morning After
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The Morning After

2016-05-03

The awkward morning after dredges up old fears for Jack and Emma and wounded feelings for Izzy. With their three-way fling feeling like more trouble than it's worth, Jack and Emma wish they'd shut it down before the whole blackmail thing started...

The Relationship More Populated
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The Relationship More Populated

2016-05-10

With blackmail and hurt feelings accumulating all around them, Emma and Jack decide the only way to move forward with Izzy is to reinstate the business arrangement parameters. But Izzy has a plan of her own that's WAY more fun... until it isn't.

Sweet Home Colorado
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Sweet Home Colorado

2016-05-17

After their wild home date turns into a tearful breakup, Izzy decides she needs to move back home to Colorado to deal with her issues. Unaware, Jack and Emma continue to deal with the fallout of what's beginning to feel like a blur of bad choices.

Trope Isn't a Four Letter Word
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Trope Isn't a Four Letter Word

2016-05-24

Coming together turned their lives upside down, but as much as Jack, Emma, and Izzy try to hide it, splitting up may be doing the real damage. Are all three brave enough to throw caution to the wind and pull off a dramatic last second save?

You Me Her: Season 2

Sex Fairy and the Eternal Flames
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Sex Fairy and the Eternal Flames

2017-02-14

In the Season 2 premiere, the now official "throuple" commit to cohabitation, face the disapproval of friends and family, and stand their ground in a bold, painful and permanent way.

Like Riding a Vagina Bike
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Like Riding a Vagina Bike

2017-02-21

The throuple "come out" at a neighborhood party, spinning the gathering out of control and cracking open a fresh can of troubles. Carmen and Dave try to make amends for their previous prudishness by inviting Jack, Emma and Izzy on an unusual double date.

Remember, Ruby, Remember
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Remember, Ruby, Remember

2017-02-28

Jack confronts Emma about inviting Izzy to move in without discussing it with him first. Leaving her to wallow in that epiphany, he goes on his interview at Griffin College and finds himself on "the road not taken."

Cat in the Box
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Cat in the Box

2017-03-07

It's "Dudes and Chicks Night in Hawthorne Heights. While the women introduce Molly to their wine hang, bar-hoppers Dave, Gabe and Jack run into Jack's "one who got away."

Stoner Sensai's Secrets of Love
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Stoner Sensai's Secrets of Love

2017-03-14

Jack's still caved out at big bro's house, Izzy's trying to coax the married couple back together, and after things go bad at work, Emma's not at all sure about what she really-really wants.

What the F Is Wrong With You Trakarskys?
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What the F Is Wrong With You Trakarskys?

2017-03-21

Good news, Izzy's not pregnant, so why's she housecleaning away her feelings again? Jack inches closer to the point of no return with Ruby. All the while, the clock's ticking on the daunting arrival of Emma's hyper-conservative parents.

Weird Janis and the White Trash Baby Vessel
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Weird Janis and the White Trash Baby Vessel

2017-03-28

With the happy throuple reunited, how can they explain Izzy's presence to Emma's old school parents? Nina gets disturbing news about Andy's romantic past. And the Amaris quest for cool leads them into a bizarre social situation.

Freaky Little Love Poodles
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Freaky Little Love Poodles

2017-04-04

Jack and Emma convince her parents that Izzy's their surrogate, but then the throuple's rouse unearths very real questions about babies and the long-term future of their relationship. Nina seeks out Andy's exes to set the record straight.

Silver Linings and Vodka
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Silver Linings and Vodka

2017-04-11

Izzy and Emma are stunned by Jack's proposal: What if the three of them really did have a baby together? But before they have time to delve deeper, they'll have to talk their way out of a tight spot with Emma's parents.

Baby, Baby Where Did Our Love Go?
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Baby, Baby Where Did Our Love Go?

2017-04-18

Jack wants a baby, Izzy wants a baby, everybody wants a baby... right? With the dazzling offer from Pinnacle pressing ever harder and an IVF consultation set, Emma must choose between a larger professional canvas and two true loves.

You Me Her: Season 3

Dickless in Seattle
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Dickless in Seattle

2018-03-20

Four months later, Emma’s still in Seattle, climbing her way to the top of the Pinnacle ladder alongside an old flame rekindled. Jack and Izzy settle into blissful monogamy in their newly finished loft. The upcoming divorce mediation and an uncomfortable reunion hangs over all of them. Carmen and new neighbor Hannah start a lifestyle magazine.

I Said Make Up
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I Said Make Up

2018-03-27

The day before the divorce signing, Jack and Emma are forced to spend an afternoon together divvying up their stuff. Someone very important from Izzy’s past shows up at precisely the wrong time. Dave and Carmen struggle to find a balance between their jobs and childcare. With Shaun’s help, Nina spins her vitriol towards Andy into an inventive thesis.

Tourist Lesbians and Millennial Twats
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Tourist Lesbians and Millennial Twats

2018-04-03

After signing the divorce papers, Emma returns to her new love in Seattle, but brings something from her old love Jack with her.

Inconceivable!
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Inconceivable!

2018-04-10

Emma remains torn between her new life and love in Seattle and her old live and love(s) back in Portland, but going back to talk to Jack about her situation causes sparks to fly.

Welcome to the Tiger Cage
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Welcome to the Tiger Cage

2018-04-17

Izzy grows ever more suspicious of Emma's return to Portland and Jack's increasingly odd behavior. Just as they're edging their way into a surprising new relationship, Nina lashes out at Shaun. Emma makes the biggest decision of her life.

Fool Me Once? Shame on You. Fool Me Twice? Blow Me
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Fool Me Once? Shame on You. Fool Me Twice? Blow Me

2018-04-24

Jack and Ben finally meet but Jack's got a more pressing issue on his mind. Emma tries to apologize to Izzy but it falls on deaf ears. Carmen and Hannah plan a magazine launch party. Izzy tries to reconnect Sasha with her grandmother.

Hold Onto Your Ovaries
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Hold Onto Your Ovaries

2018-05-01

At Carmen and Hannah's magazine launch party, Emma corners Izzy in a Hail Mary attempt to get her back. Nina gets stood up so Shaun offers to be her replacement "thesis date. Good news for Carmen's magazine means bad news for Dave.

The Insidious Lure of Pumpkin Spice
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The Insidious Lure of Pumpkin Spice

2018-05-08

Nina's emerging feelings for Shaun are complicated when Andy pops back up with one hell of a story. Ben plants seeds of doubt about how Izzy could fit into the Trakarskys' new life.

Asshole, Other Asshole, and the Depressive Muppet
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Asshole, Other Asshole, and the Depressive Muppet

2018-05-15

Jack and Emma pressure Izzy to give Seattle a chance, and she volleys back an ultimatum. As Carmen's dreams come true, the Amaris come to a stunning resolution to their career/childcare dilemma. Nina is stuck between a Shaun and an Andy place.

You Be You And I'll Be Me
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You Be You And I'll Be Me

2018-05-22

The complex realities of polyamory and "throupling": What happens when this peculiar rom-com fades to black? Can they prove their best, truest, happiest lives really are together, even when it's difficult and more conventional alternatives beckon?

You Me Her: Season 4

Triangular Peg, Meet Round Hole
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Triangular Peg, Meet Round Hole

2019-04-09

Two months later, we find EJI back in Hawthorne Heights, “test-renting” the Helen Wilberg house. Will the surprising news revealed at Emma’s baby-doc appointment put enough pressure on Izzy to finally cave and put down roots in the ‘burbs?

The Saddest Clown Show Ever
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The Saddest Clown Show Ever

2019-04-16

Jack tries to bro-out with his new replacement friend, Nathan. Izzy decides to apply for the Hawthorne School counsellor job. Emma tries to start her architectural empire from home, but can't keep from spying on the exciting new neighbors.

The Deaf Leading The Blind Leading The Stupid
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The Deaf Leading The Blind Leading The Stupid

2019-04-23

The EJI sex slump continues even as Emma insists Jack and Izzy should be okay getting it on without her. So why can't they seem to pull the trigger even while Emma is busy taking over the neighborhood?

That’s so Stupid and I’m Definitely Not Crying
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That’s so Stupid and I’m Definitely Not Crying

2019-04-30

Emma’s been reading up on the rules of polyamory and apparently EJI is doing it all wrong; Gabe blows Emma and Izzy’s mind by revealing a family secret they absolutely cannot repeat to Jack.

Santa Claus Rides Loch Ness Monster Into Atlantis!
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Santa Claus Rides Loch Ness Monster Into Atlantis!

2019-05-07

EJI attend Poly Training Camp with Portland’s resident poly expert, Coach Remi. They expected the unexpected, but not that they’d be “outed” for doing poly all wrong.

Eat Your Strangers and Don't Talk to Vegetables!
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Eat Your Strangers and Don't Talk to Vegetables!

2019-05-14

EJI's new symbol of their love, a brightly painted front door, garners the attention of the neighborhood, who don't appreciate "Marigold 142" quite as much as our throuple.

Now Who's Got Egg in Her Hair?
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Now Who's Got Egg in Her Hair?

2019-05-21

The aftermath of Izzy and Nathan's egg-cellent adventure has surprising consequences, drawing Gabriel into the sticky mess. Meanwhile, Emma and Jack confront Lala at her own game, neighborhood politics.

A Whole Bouillabaisse of Crazy
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A Whole Bouillabaisse of Crazy

2019-05-28

Lala's not the only one Izzy has to make reparations to; her bad late-night choices seem to keep ringing up consequences, forcing EJI to confront issues they've all been desperately ducking.

I'm Popeye and You're My Beautiful Spinach
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I'm Popeye and You're My Beautiful Spinach

2019-06-04

Izzy tries to friend zone Nathan once and for all. Jack and his mom finally have their showdown.

Who We Are...and Who We Aren't
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Who We Are...and Who We Aren't

2019-06-11

Everybody in EJI World prepares for the anniversary party, counting down the moments until they sign papers to legally bind them together as a family... unless someone or something changes their minds.

You Me Her: Season 5

The Stages of (Breakup) Grief
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The Stages of (Breakup) Grief

2020-06-08

Izzy returns to Portland to find that life continued on without her.

Dr. Feelgood's Magic Tea
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Dr. Feelgood's Magic Tea

2020-06-08

When Lala and Ben unwittingly give everyone Saharan Truth Serum, the party really gets started.

Squonk Happens
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Squonk Happens

2020-06-08

EJI succumb to The First Stage of Breakup Grief, the dreaded “I Want My Shit Back.”

Also, I Hate You.
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Also, I Hate You.

2020-06-08

Emma and Jack have planned a romantic night away at a hotel, and Izzy doesn’t care. Not at all. Nope. Not one bit. And shut up.

Remember the Carlyle!
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Remember the Carlyle!

2020-06-08

EJI drop the masks of indifference and finally say what’s been bubbling up since Izzy made a run for the border six months ago.

Break It like You Mean It
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Break It like You Mean It

2020-06-08

EJI agrees to “take a beat,” not make any rash decisions. But when Nina finds out, she decides to take matters into her own hands.

Going Deep Dish
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Going Deep Dish

2020-06-08

Nina comforts Izzy while Emma and Jack get life-altering news from Dave.

Oh, Mama!
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Oh, Mama!

2020-06-08

After Izzy’s verbal castration and hard no to their apology, you think Emma and Jack would just pack up and leave? Think again.

Say Something. Say Anything.
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Say Something. Say Anything.

2020-06-08

Emma and Jack have one last trick up their sleeves to win Izzy back. Time to go big.

Home Is Where the Flaming Heart Is
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Home Is Where the Flaming Heart Is

2020-06-08

The Curious Case of EJI is resolved: Izzy’s leaving and Emma and Jack are staying because it’s the right thing to do. The end. Except...

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